Why Ghosting Hurts So Much


“The important thing to remember is that when someone ghosts you, it says nothing about you or your worthiness for love and everything about the person doing the ghosting. It shows he/she doesn’t have the courage to deal with the discomfort of their emotions or yours, and they either don’t understand the impact of their behavior or worse don’t care. In any case they have sent you an extremely loud message that says: I don’t have what it takes to have a mature healthy relationship with you. Be the better person, retain your dignity, and let him/her go.”


Vilhauer, J. (November, 2015) Why Ghosting Hurts So Much. Retrieved February 7, 2016, from https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/living-forward/201511/why-ghosting-hurts-so-much